It is said that 85% of Success depends on Personality. Personality Development is continuous Study and practice for the improvement of the quality of our life. What we perceive in our mind becomes our personality. There are two types of personality 1) External Personality which consist of your appearance, Physical structure 2) Internal personality which includes behavior, Character, Attitude, Habits
External personality contributes 10% of your Personality and 80% contribution is of internal personality.
Here are 13 ways to develop an attractive personality;
1)Know Yourself
Knowing yourself is knowing your life goals Knowing Yourself can make good decisions. Have successful relationships and fulfilling life. Self-discovery is never ending journey. Life full of Goals gives your life Purpose. Invest in Yourself to find your purpose. It’s important to know about questions like How internally strong we are? What we want in our life? Who is our role Model? Knowing Yourself is biggest wisdom out of all.
2)Reading Books
Reading books can have a great impact on your personality.Reading helps to develop good thoughts, endless knowledge for keeping our minds active. Reading sharpens your mind, increases your vocabulary, lowers your stress, decreases your depression, improves your memory and focus, strengthens your writing and ability, enhances your imagination. In such ways reading can actually change your way of thinking. It certainly broadens your mind.
3)Work harder on yourself than your job.
Invest in yourself. When you invest in yourself your personality will affect and change and your work will also improve. Set goals try to accomplish them, Work on your habits. Improve your daily routine. Change yourself in ambition of pursuing of your goals. Give reward to yourself for every accomplishment.
4)Be confident in every situation
Be confident in every situation. Setting goals and accomplishing them gives you the immense confidence in your professional as well as personal life. It helps you to stay motivated. It will have good influence over the people around you. Believing in yourself leads you to become more self-assured of yourself.
So You should start taking charge of your feelings and should start overcoming obstacles.
5)Take care of Yourself
Take excellent care of yourself. Good diet, Sufficient sleep and regular exercise affects both your internal and external health. Look good, smell good. Good impressions count. Appearance counts in first impression. Practice good hygiene. Aim for a healthy diet. Practicing self-care will lead to peace of mind as well as body.
6)Set Priorities and become Disciplined person
Set priorities in your life and try to achieve and fulfil it. Take smaller steps to accomplish your goal. As it will give you confidence. Eliminate bad habits, instill self-discipline, avoid procrastination and manage your time accordingly. Persistence is the key for long haul. Setting goals will give your life direction.
7) Talk Less Listen More
Instilling Listening skills can have positive impact on your personality. It improves the communication with the other person and help us to really understand them. Listening another person will make them feel understood and cared for.
8)Work on Your Communication skills
Interpersonal skills consist of effective communication. Communication skills involves listening, speaking, observing and empathizing. Making people understand your thoughts is an essential part of communication. Unequivocal tone of your voice makes a direct impact on your audience. It helps you in acquiring new skills.
9)Stay away from negative people
Wrong association means having company of negative people. Every time you encounter toxic people you are left emotionally drained, exhausted. Their negative impact affects us overall being. Stay away from toxic people as they have ability to destroy your life. It becomes difficult to stay positive in their company.
10)Always surround yourself with committed and disciplined people
Discipline is an integral part of living fulfilling life. It acts as a driving force for achieving any goal. It gives you strength to endure difficulties, obstacles. It gives you courage to attain new heights. Discipline bring stability and structure to one’s life. It helps you in being organized. Listen to motivational videos, Read and talk with successful people and implement successful values in your life.
11)Always be excited
Be excited when you meet someone, be cheerful. Be energetic. When a person is energetic people get attracted towards him, success gets attracted to him. Being enthusiastic about your work can inspire people around you and it will help you being motivated.
12)Don’t argue but Discuss
Don’t argue but discuss the matters calmly, there is no point in arguing baselessly with someone who have strong beliefs. Argument can lead to disappointment, so rather it is better to have a mindful discussion to reach a conclusion taking everyone’s opinion into consideration.
13)Always start your day with something positive and plan your day ahead as well
Planning your day as well as starting it with something positive will help you retain positivity throughout the day. It will help you organize your schedules and follow it accordingly. Positivity is contagious as it will also affect the moods of people surrounding you resulting in increased productivity.